...a few words...
I'll keep this as short as possible.
To catch you all up to speed on the latest bullshit - and believe me, it is - Corey and Scott have started a ghost-hunting thing and posted it on the Bug Juice Mega-Forum. Actually, it has it's own section there, as it's a Bug Juice related deal. Nix, Hizzy, & the mysterious "hmmm" offered their advice and assistance; Corey and Scott said no; these three took offense; Corey bitched them all out, and in the process spoke some lies about Hizzy. Beaver decided to grace the situation with his ever-so-"wise" interjections, and here we are in the present.
The forum stuff has been settled already, thanks to yours truly. I'm able to do that because I'm an administrator there. If only I could lock the thread on the bullshit of real life as easily...
While it's true that Hizzy has garnished herself an unfortunately-almost-100%-accurate reputation for not being able to be trusted with things you wouldn't want others to know about - truth of the matter is, she didn't do the crime that Corey slapped on her. Corey says Hizz tried to blab stuff around the group about a personal matter in his life. Well, she didn't. Would she have had she not talked to me first? I'm not Miss Cleo, so I can't tell you (although it is possible, sorry to say Hizz). But she didn't.
I know all about being blamed for things I didn't do, so it really fucking chaps my ass when it happens to someone else.
@Corey - Bro, you and I have been friends for a long time; so I won't mix words, but I'll be frank with you. Being pissed is your option; your opinion of the Hizz is your own; but shut the fuck up when it comes to accusing someone of something they didn't fucking do.
@Hizzy - You've been attacked, and no one knows what that's like better than me. But I would suggest to just let it die. Don't respond. Ignore it all.
I mentioned Beaver before. He not only chimed in with his two cents, but also has made some pretty abrasive comments about the personal matter I mentioned in blog-land.
@Beaver - Shut the fuck up, dude. This is not your fight, you should stay out of it. You can defend Hizzy without resorting to attacks and 'fuck yous' - and on this particular issue that you keep bringing up, it's the last thing you should be talking about. Again, shut the fuck up about it. That's not a threat, but some advice from a friend. Corey would NOT be as nice about it, and believe me, if he felt like doing something about it, no amount of backing you could garnish from your pool of friends would really stop him. Given the context of the matter at hand, you're kinda lucky I haven't taken a more active role myself about it.
And now, I am going to curl up in my nice, warm bed with my beautiful wife. Goodnight everyone...pleasant dreams to you all.
Quilled Tunes: "Fear" - Disturbed
3 Comments:
NonononononoNO. They said they needed to be educated and we gave them suggestions and links and HE got pissed off. Notice this: Topics were started by three people. Spark, Hizz and Hmmmm. Now which one was not included in that tirade of his? Right. All 3 topics were giving suggestions and resources.
Check it out. I wouldn't bitch if someone came to my section on the forum and suggested places to read up on the art of film reviewing. I'd probablly say "Thanks." And I might or might not go check them out. But what I would NOT do is throw a fucking fit over helpful information pertaining to my interest.
And, one last thing, the opening post made it sound like everyone was trying to "join" their little group and that was NOT the case, at all. That's the one mistake you made in your final post. Noone was trying to become an official member, we were just replying to the fact that they didn't know everything they needed to know in order to effectively do what they intended to do. Go back and read it, again.
Nix says: You can delete this reply after you read, dude. I was gonna email but I did this, for some reason.
Nix says: Sorry, what I mean is: You don't have a space in a public forum and then get pissed off that people come and make comments on it. That's what it's fucking there for. Am I wrong? (If you even say yes, my head will explode, dude.) But I've already decided to let them rule over that spot with an iron fist.
My problem with it was, the first post that Corey, or Juggy, or whatever, wrote, was basicly saying "Butt out of this... We don't NEED any more people in SPIT!!" I was never trying to join SPIT... I've got my own methods and ablities to go out ghost hunting with out having some guys just getting into the investigations tagging along. I understand the need to keep the numbers small.. most paranormal investigations tend to only be one or 2 people.. I personally wouldn't recomend any more than 4 people in an investigation. I just remember how hard it was starting out myself, and with that being said.. wanted to give them some starting points. It's just advice... you either take it, or not. If you don't want to take it, then don't. No skin off my nose.. but I don't like being accused of trying to get into something that I'm already doing. Personally, i was offended at the rudeness of the post... if he just didn't pay attention to what I said, or didn't acknoledge it, then that's fine... If he didn't want anymore advice, then fine... I understand that too... But don't go saying that everyone's trying to get into your thing, when all they are doing is just trying to point you in the right direction.
Sorry, getting off my soap box now... just wanted to explain why i'm upset about this. I don't like people assuming things... especially about my motives. In the ghost hunting community, we all try to help each other. That's all I or anyone else (from my understanding) was trying to do.
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